When it comes to relationships, sometimes you need to add a little spice. Like any great recipe, it only takes a little bit of heat to make something good into something amazing. Sexting and sexy pics are a great way to kick things up a knotch and add a new level of intimacy of your relationship.
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Of course, there are ways to make your sext as steamy and successful as possible. (For a little inspiration, click here.) But for the most part, your S/O will be beyond stoked to get a little picture, or message, that says you're thinking about them in a delightfully dirty way.
Before any good sext, you should feel comfortable with who you're messaging. This is someone who respects you and someone that you trust - revenge porn is sadly alive and well these days. A good sext is always your choice and you should only send anything if you want to. Not because you feel pressure.
Let's kick things off, shall we? A good intro to any sext is
1. Remembering a steamy hook-up
"Remember that one time, after senior prom, when we were in the hot tub for four hours?" is always a good way to get the ball rolling. Recounting something sexy will get your S/O in the mood because 1. it was hot 2. they'll know you're getting turned on remembering it and 3. that's even hotter.
2. Anything unexpected
"A sexual "I'm thinking of you," does a lot for me. I used to see this girl who would purposely sext me when I was in meetings, just to mess with me. It was extremely hot and always fun to unlock my phone," - Dan*, 24.
"Anytime you're in a swim suit is a good time to mention you're in a swim suit. The mental image alone is really sexy. One pieces, bikinis, whatever. If she wants to send a pic, great. But sometimes just the anticipation alone will really turn me on." - Cam*, 21.
4. Late Night
"So many sexts I send (and get lol) start because I'm tired. When you're in bed, you start thinking about what you want to do in bed, you know? "Wish you were here," can start some really dirty things if you're both in the mood. Some half-naked pics with the sheets, maybe totally taken with her ass in the air - has to be my favourite." - James*, 20
5. Personal Business
"I was sexting this girl I was seeing, we were sending some snaps as we were talking, and she just sent me this video of her touching herself that turned me on so much. I'd never had a girl send that to me before. It was the hottest thing anyone's ever sent to me." - Tyler*, 25.
6. For me?
"I actually love it when I know a girl's taking pics especially for me, as opposed to an old saved pic. Any pic is hot but when she writes something about something I like in bed or wears a bra I think is super sexy, that's awesome. Way hotter knowing that she's thinking of me when she takes it." - Chad*, 26.
"I'm an ass man so anything in a tight dress or shorts. Underwear, too. Just a booty pic now and then and I'm a happy guy." - Kyle*, 21.
8. Got you covered
"Sometimes I'm more into it when a girl teases me. My ex used to send me pics of her getting out of the shower with a towel draped over her boobs. Making me think about her naked was almost hotter than her sending a straight up nude." - Mitch*, 27.
9. Out in the open
"The hottest sexts I get from my girlfriend are definitely when I know she shouldn't be sexting me. Literally pictures from her office bathroom or half-done up shirt pics. Basically any time I get to call her a bad girl." - Cole*, 23.