A famous psychologist once said "humans are attracted to each other's rough edges". Despite this truth, we all seem to be suffering of a fear of expressing our emotions. The very thought of it may send a sharp tingling sensation up your spine. But that palpable bodily reaction is universal - and more importantly - entirely normal. It is felt by everyone regardless of age, race, religion, income, gender - you get the point - everyone who ever "put themselves out there" has experienced this sensation.
Those who can confront that feeling head-on and say "You don't scare me, let's hang out instead". Rather than run from it, they harness it and get on its level. These people are true unicorns, who not only dare to feel, but express it, too. Freely expressing emotions is the essence of true vulnerability - which is the primary ingredient for the secret sauce of any successful relationship.
That said, emotions have a bad rep, but in the pages ahead we will look at why girls who are too emotional actually make the best wives. We will shed some light on different scenarios a girl will typically find herself in at home, during conflict, out with friends, communication, and finally on vacation.
For Making Decisions, Click "NEXT"
Without emotions we wouldn't be able to make any decisions. Feelings tell us where to direct our energy. This feels bad = don't do it! This feels good.= keep doing it! See, told you so. Simply said, if we didn't feel anything, making even the smallest decision would be a extremely painful process.
That's why, when it comes to emotional girls, they are the best decision makers in the home. And thank goodness for that. They know what they want out of their life and they are not afraid to ask for it. Always.
Whether you're talking a high-level decision such as wether to move to a new city or the smallest decision like where to eat that night, an emotional girl will not be afraid to step forward and act. She is the opposite on indecisive.
That's because, bottom line, an emotional girl is not afraid of what others will think. She just does. Don't confuse this for acting recklessly though. No, the emotion girl is quite the opposite.
She is able to master the balancing act of speaking her mind, going for what she wants, but also keeping an empathetic mind-set. In other words, she is a true gem. She cares about people, but she know that her own needs and priorities come first.
Emotional girls don't fear consequences either. Because emotional girls are highly self-aware and they know how to own the potential consequences or repercussions of their actions. And they take full responsibility. Making a relationship with them like sailing a calm sea.
They rarely regret because they trust that their feelings and intuition will guide them in the right direction. They have learnt over time, from trail and error, when to trust their gut and when not to. They have a close relationships with their gut and trust it's decision making powers more than anyone else.
That's why if you find yourself in a relationships with an emotional girl, keep her close! As counter-intuitive as it may sound, she will bring a lot of stability and clarity to this hectic little thing we call living.
For During Conflict, Click "NEXT"
Conflict in relationships is - well, crappy for everyone. It's not fun. But surprisingly enough, it's an essential part of navigating day-to-day life with a significant other. In other words, couples who don't have conflict are a bit odd, because without conflict, a partnership cannot thrive and grow.
Don't believe me? Think of any typical romantic comedy story line. A couple goes through many hurdles and setbacks only to predictably arrive at a happy and romantic end. Although life doesn't unfold as neatly as "Sleepless in Seattle", there is a kernel of truth to this universal trope. That's why we all relate to these types of stories.
That said, successful couples know how to fight right. And a couples "success" and happiness is highly dependent on how well they handle conflict together and how well they can fight predicts wether or not the relationships will thrive and last.
That's why emotional girls make the best wives, because they are able to navigate conflict more easily than those on the opposite side of the spectrum who bottle up all their feelings. For them, communication of feelings is second nature, and they aren't afraid to say what's on their mind.
As a result, emotional girls are able to deal with relationship conflict as it arises, rather than pushing it aside until everything explode into a giant mega-fight that has the potential to fully destroy a relationship.
In other words, the emotional wife knows how to be vulnerable. She can tell you about her fears and worries without a doubt that someone will judge her for it. The ability to open up to people like that is priceless.
The positive side-effect of wearing our heart on your sleeve is the close emotional bond that will form over time with her significant other. Because she knows and feels that he sees her true self all the time, with no questions asked. When someone sees all your rough edges, and still loves you for it, then you know it's the real thing.
If your are with an emotional girl, I am sure you're nodding your head right now agreeing on how #blessed you are. Because this is most definitely one of the best side-effects of having the bravery to speak your mind.
For Balancing Life, Click "NEXT"
Life is hectic. Filled with long days of work and long evenings of self-exploration and Netflix binging. An emotional girl is extremely self-aware and good at making the right decision for herself, this let's her be able to keep her life in balance.
Yes, I know this is the OPPOSITE of what you would assume when you hear the word "emotion" - because this word often makes us think of someone who is flighty, on edge and erratic. But those things happen when emotion are slammed to the extreme. Which is pretty rare.
There is a subtle difference when it comes to the emotional girl. The word emotional has sadly been twisted and abused. A girl is emotional, she is NOT crazy and erratic, she is just more in tune with her inner compass. She feels a certain sensations and knows how to interpret it quickly. It's a skill! Ever heard of emotional intelligence?
As a result, this girl is a pleasure to be around because she knows when to hit the breaks and slow down, and when it's time to hit the accelerator and speed up. It will always be a fun ride with an emotional girl, she will take you to places you never dreamt of going.
For example, emotional girls can be quite sensitive - they feel quite a lot, which can be draining. But they are very confident in the lifestyle they need to live to maintain their unique sense of inner balance and peace.
On the flip since, emotional girls will never stay in a rut. They are not the type to continuously complain about how crappy their job is, but never make a move. In fact, they might make the move even faster.
Which means that you can always feel safe and secure with the emotional girl, because if she's not happy with you or something in your relationship, you'll be damn sure that she will let you know right away!
Relationships can be a roller-coaster at baseline. But having an emotional girl around will help smooth things out. She will always let you know where you stand and is confident in the way she lives her life.
For Communication, Click "NEXT"
Communication is the cornerstone of all successful relationships. Communication is like water. Without it, a relationships flower will quickly turn yellow, shrivel up, and die of thirst.
It's in your best interest to "water" your relationship! It's tough to put your feelings out there, let's just say this doesn't come naturally to everyone. And understandably so.
The free flowing of feelings back and forth let's a couple keep in each other in constant check. Basically, you're not sitting around trying to read your partners mind or guess how their feeling. Because you know where that always lead to.
Bottling up how you feel is going to get you nowhere in life. The squeaky wheel gets the grease, they say - and who knows that better than anyone else. You guessed it. The emotional girl!
The emotional girl is different. Communication is where she can bring her A-game. Wether it's positive or negative the emotional girl will be able to tell you how she's feeling, no matter what.
She not only knows what to say, but also, how to say it. And because she feels so much, she is very empathetic to others emotions and soaks them up like a dry and thirsty sponge. She will always be able to effortless put herself in another persons shoes and view an issue from their perspective. Which is invaluable when it comes to communication.
This allows the emotional girl to communicate with sensitivity, which is a vital quality when considering a long-term partnership with someone. You don't want to be stuck 'til death-do-you-part with someone who can't communicate with empathy and sensitivity.
That said, if you find yourself with a emotional girl, consider yourself a lucky man! This doesn't mean there won't be any conflict ahead, it just means it might be a little easier and smoother to navigate.
For Outside Your Comfort Zone, Click "NEXT"
Whether you're going on vacation, have a new job opportunity, or just want to try something exciting and new, it can bring out some scary bodily sensations and feelings to step outside your comfort zone. Anticipating the rush is almost as nerve-wracking as the actual rush itself.
That said, when we get into long-term relationships, it's crucial to make a consistent and active effort to push yourself to try new things. Nothing like routine and predictability to extinguish the fires of passion and excitement. Whether you're trying them alone or with your SO, this is the best strategy for keeping things fresh and exciting over the years.
Couples who make the active effort to do this consistently will have many years of fun adventure to come. Because what is marriage if not having a reliable and consistent partner in crime to jump into the unknown with?
Emotional girls, without-a-doubt, make the best partners in crime. Especially when you're venturing into uncharted territory. This is the type of person you want by your side when venturing into the unknown.
Don't get me wrong, though. Emotional girls do have fears and reservation just like everyone else, however, as mentioned before they have an unmatched level of self-awareness and that means they know when to take action.
This translates into a chameleon-like ease in new and unfamiliar environments. The emotional girl will be your travel and adventure buddy for life!
Emotional girls have an untameable thirst for life. They exude this incredible magnetic energy that can become addictive to be around. Taking the plunge outside your comfort zone will make for a truly unforgettable experience.