I live in Europe — Here are 7 vacation destinations to avoid and where to go instead

Barcelona, Spain

With its stunning Gaudí architecture, vibrant nightlife, and gorgeous city beaches, it's not hard to understand why Barcelona is among the most popular tourist destinations in the whole of Europe. But while Barcelona's quaint stores, cobblestone streets and iconic narrow alleys are undeniably beautiful, being among Europe's most-visited destinations comes with a few downsides.

Strolling down La Rambla means navigating through packed crowds, street performers, and an overwhelming number of souvenir shops. Popular attractions like the Sagrada Familia and Park Güell often have long lines and pricey entry fees, and snagging a spot on Barceloneta Beach can feel impossible in peak season. Plus, with its popularity, Barcelona has become increasingly expensive, making it tricky to experience the city without spending big.

Where To Go Instead: Girona, Spain

If you love Barcelona's traditional charm but want a quieter, more authentic Spanish adventure, Girona is a popular alternative among those in the know. Just an hour from Barcelona by train, this historic spot has colourful riverside buildings, ancient stone walls, and some of the best-preserved medieval streets in Spain.

You can explore Girona's stunning Old Town, walk along its historic Roman walls for panoramic views, and visit several Game of Thrones filming locations, including the iconic cathedral.

The city is also a foodie paradise, home to incredible local tapas spots, as well as world-renowned restaurants. Plus, it's far less crowded and more affordable than Barcelona, so you can soak up a similar Catalonian atmosphere on a much smaller budget.

Paris, France

Paris is a bucket list city for people from all over the world, and for good reason. The city's iconic landmarks, charming cafes, world-class museums and delicious cuisine make it an unforgettable place to visit. But while the City of Love is undeniably beautiful (and romantic!), it's also one of the most overcrowded and potentially underwhelming places to visit, in my opinion.

Popular attractions like the Eiffel Tower and the Louvre often come with notoriously long lines, and even lesser-known spots are often packed. A walk along the Seine or through Montmartre can feel more like weaving through a sea of tourists than a romantic stroll.

Prices for hotels, food, and coffee can be surprisingly high, especially in touristy areas. If you dream of a peaceful, romantic and storybook-esque Parisian experience, the reality might leave you feeling a little underwhelmed.

Where To Go Instead: Lyon, France

If Paris is on your bucket list for its elegance, history, and incredible food, Lyon is the perfect alternative. Often described as the gastronomic capital of France, this stunning city is a haven for foodies, with traditional bouchons serving up rich and authentic French cuisine.

Lyon's Old Town is just as charming as Paris' historic districts, with its cobbled streets, Renaissance architecture, and scenic riverside views. You can explore the breathtaking Basilica of Notre Dame de Fourvière, wander through hidden secret passageways, and soak up all the romance of France, all without the overwhelming crowds of Paris.

If you're drawn to Paris for its picture-perfect streets and charming architecture, Strasbourg is another alternative that might just steal your heart. Located near the German border, this fairytale city has half-timbered houses, canals, and a magical atmosphere — especially during winter.

Amsterdam, The Netherlands

Once known for its laid-back charm, it's reasonable to say that Amsterdam has become a victim of its own popularity. While the city's iconic canals, world-class museums, and historic houses are undeniably appealing, the sheer volume of tourists can make it feel more exhausting than enchanting.

Wandering the city's narrow streets often means navigating swarms of visitors, dodging bikes, and squeezing past endless tour groups. Attractions like the Anne Frank House and the Van Gogh Museum often require booking weeks in advance, and accommodation prices have skyrocketed.

Amsterdam has also become a hotspot for bachelor and stag parties from the U.K. and beyond. Large groups looking to party fill the streets on weekends, especially in areas like the Red Light District, making parts of the city feel less like a cultural destination and more like a nightlife free-for-all.

Where To Go Instead: Utrecht, The Netherlands

If you love Amsterdam's canals and historic charm but want fewer crowds, add Utrecht to your must-visit list. Just a short train ride from Amsterdam, this university city has beautiful canals, lively cafes, and a rich cultural scene, all without the overwhelming number of tourists.

Plus, Utrecht has a thriving nightlife and food culture, with modern restaurants and bars that locals visit. Best of all, it's considerably more affordable, making it a great way to experience the Netherlands without the chaos and crowds.

Dubrovnik, Croatia

Dubrovnik, with its medieval walls, terracotta rooftops, and breathtaking Adriatic views, is clearly beautiful. But in recent years, it's officially become the most overcrowded destination in Europe. With 27.42 tourists per resident, according to Holidu, the city seems more like a theme park than a charming coastal getaway.

Cruise ships drop thousands of visitors into the compact Old Town daily, making the narrow streets feel claustrophobic. Prices for food, drinks, and accommodations have skyrocketed, and during peak season, it's nearly impossible to enjoy the city's famous walls or even find a quiet corner to soak in the view.

Where To Go Instead: Šibenik, Croatia

For an alternative to Croatia's stunning coastline, rich history, and picturesque old towns without the overwhelming crowds, consider Šibenik.

Nestled along the Adriatic, this more underrated gem has winding stone streets, impressive medieval fortresses, and beautiful beaches nearby. It's home to the UNESCO-listed St. James Cathedral, stunning seaside promenades, and near to Krka National Park, where you can swim beneath waterfalls.

Šibenik isn't overrun with tourists and visitors, making it calmer and more straightforward to explore. Plus, prices are far more reasonable.

Rome, Italy

Rome needs no introduction. With its ancient ruins, grand piazzas, and world-famous cuisine, it's been a dream destination for people from all over the world for centuries. And while the so-called Eternal City is packed with history, it's also packed with tourists. So many tourists.

Mass tourism has turned Rome into one of the most overcrowded cities in Europe. The Colosseum, the Vatican, and the Trevi Fountain are almost always surrounded by huge crowds, making it basically impossible to properly appreciate their beauty. Long lines, pushy street vendors, and sky-high prices, especially near major attractions, can be overwhelming if you're not expecting it. If you're visiting in summer, the combination of heat, humidity, and huge crowds can be unbearable.

Where To Go Instead: Bologna, Italy

For authentic Italian charm without the overwhelming crowds, Bologna is the perfect spot. Known for its beautiful porticoes, medieval architecture, and mouthwatering food, this northern Italian city is a dream come true for both history lovers and foodies.

You can wander its gorgeous streets, climb the Asinelli Tower for panoramic views, indulge in its legendary cuisine, and soak in all of the city's old-world charm. Best of all, you won't have to fight through massive crowds to enjoy it.

London, United Kingdom

London is an incredible city, and those who love it really love it. From its historic landmarks to its iconic shopping and long list of tourist attractions, there's always something happening in the Big Smoke. But with around 30 million visitors per year, it's also one of the busiest and most expensive cities in Europe.

Tourist hotspots like Buckingham Palace, Big Ben, and the Tower of London are constantly packed, with long lines whatever time of year you visit. Oxford Street is a chaotic sea of shoppers, and even getting around can be exhausting with sardine-packed tube rides. Plus, with the cost of everything from hotels to a simple pint being ridiculously high, London can and will drain your budget fast.

Where To Go Instead: Manchester, United Kingdom

If you want to soak up a big, English city but want to dodge London's crowds, chaos and over-tourism, Manchester is a good alternative. Known for its rich industrial history, iconic music scene, and world-famous football clubs, this northern city has double the character with half the overwhelming crowds.

The city's food and drink scene is booming, with incredible independent cafes, restaurants, and pubs at way better prices than London. Plus, Manchester's friendly, down-to-earth vibe makes it feel more welcoming, so you can actually enjoy your trip without the constant hustle.

The Amalfi Coast, Italy

The Amalfi Coast is considered the ultimate Italian getaway thanks to its pastel-coloured buildings clinging to cliffs, sparkling Mediterranean views, and charming cobblestone streets that wind through postcard-perfect towns. And yes, it really is that beautiful... in theory.

During a recent visit, I was genuinely shocked by just how jam-packed these tiny, quaint towns, particularly Positano and Amalfi, have become. What should be romantic and serene now feels chaotic, especially during the busy summer months. Even the lesser-known areas are crowded, with tourists pouring in from cruise ships, tour buses, and more.

Capri, in particular, is now absolutely brimming with people. The narrow streets are shoulder-to-shoulder, restaurant reservations are nearly impossible to snag, and prices are through the roof.

Where To Go Instead: Salento, Puglia

Tucked into the heel of Italy's so-called "boot," Salento feels like a secret. This sun-soaked region has two coastlines — the rugged Adriatic and the golden Ionian — each with charm enough to rival those on the Amalfi Coast.

This beautiful spot has cliffside swimming spots, sandy beaches with turquoise water, and far fewer tourists, all at a fraction of the cost.

There are historic towns like Gallipoli and Santa Maria di Leuca, where you can enjoy fresh seafood and quiet piazzas without elbowing your way through crowds. Inland, Lecce is a dream for architecture lovers, often called the "Florence of the South," thanks to its ornate buildings and romantic, walkable streets.