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'Love Is Blind' Star Raven Broke Her Silence On SK's Cheating & Here's How She Found Out

They were living together at the time 😞

Raven Ross. Right: Sikiru "SK" Alagbada and Raven Ross.

Raven Ross. Right: Sikiru "SK" Alagbada and Raven Ross.

@pilatesbodyraven | Instagram, Sara Mally | Netflix
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Anyone who has watched Love Is Blind: After The Altar is aware that Raven Ross ended her relationship with SK Alagbada after cheating allegations surfaced against him.

Now the reality TV star is opening up about how she found out about those allegations and it looks like she became aware of it the same way many of us did: through social media.

In the After The Altar special that premiered on February 10, Alagbada proposed to Ross for a second time and she said yes.

However, their happiness didn't last long because the special also showed that the engagement ended shortly after.

"Since then [the engagement] a lot has changed, my world is completely different because SK cheated on me and now our relationship is over," Ross said in the Netflix episode.

You may remember those cheating allegations first surfaced on TikTok back in November 2022 after a couple of women accused Alagbada of going out with them while he was dating Ross.

Alagbada denied the accusations at the time and called them "malicious."

Ross spoke with Entertainment Tonight and said she found out about the cheating through TikTok like the rest of us.

"I found out on TikTok with the rest of the world," Raven said in the interview.

"That's how it happened and it's OK now, but, yeah, when the world found out was when I learned about it too and we had to process that together."

She also told ET that she and her former fiancé were living together at the time since he was on break from school.

"Unfortunately, we weren't able to communicate enough to get past it. And I think as much as in the moment I wanted it to work, it was just a level of trust and you just gotta be realistic about your expectations of your partner and be realistic about respect in your relationship."

Looking back at her relationship with Alagbada, Ross says there were times that she had a "gut feeling" about something, but didn't ask questions.

"It was always just me saying in the back of my mind, 'Hmm, that just doesn't really add up.' But I was not in a place, I was so worried about keeping our relationship together and not creating conflict that I wasn't asking the questions that I needed to be… There were many times I should have known better," she told ET.

In an interview with Narcity in January, Ross spoke about her time on the reality show and said she tries to have no regrets.

She also gave advice to future contestants of the show based on her own experience.

"My advice if you're going to go out is to really just be yourself. Do the work before, do the work after, don't try to be anyone else," she said at the time.

"Just really stick true to who you are and listen to your gut because trying to do anything other than that is going to make the situation even harder."

In an interview with People, Ross says she is currently dating someone and it sounds like it's going really well.

"I really feel like I'm going to be engaged this year. I mean, [he's] definitely the front-runner for sure. Yeah. Oh my gosh, I'm obsessed," she said in the interview.

She also noted that her new man has seen Love Is Blind.

"He's a guy so he doesn't really see or follow [the SK drama]," she continued.

"I've definitely had to explain a lot of things, and that's not easy. That's super awkward. But it's only brought us closer together so far, so it's going really well. We'll see."

Love Is Blind season 3 and the After The Altar are available now on Netflix.

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      Asymina Kantorowicz (she/her) was a Senior Writer for Narcity Media. She has worked at Yahoo Canada, CTV News Vancouver Island, CTV News Channel, and CHCH News. Over the past eight years, she took on various newsroom roles and helped produce award-winning newscasts. Loving the fast-paced environment of any newsroom, she helped cover stories like the 2016 royal visit to Victoria, the 2019 B.C. manhunt, and provincial elections. She had an MA in journalism and a BA in media from Western University. She moved from Toronto to Victoria a few years ago and loved being close to the ocean.

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